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Husband Doesn't Work & Wastes My Money

Husband Doesn't Work & He Wastes My Money

In this counseling answer: • In case your husband does not take responsibility for his role in this horrific situation and stop abusing and using you and start acting like a Muslim man, you need to get as far away from him as you can. You need to rotect yourself from a life of sin. …

I Can’t Bear Living with My Bossy In-Laws!

I Can’t Bear Living with My Bossy In-Laws!

In this counseling answer: • Recognize what a blessing Allah has given in not just one area of your life but two. • Go live with your husband. • Your mother in law is your mother’s sister, so ask your mother as I believe she knows from experience how and what works best in terms …

Am I Prepared for Marriage?

Am I Prepared for This Marriage?

In this counseling answer: • Express your concerns to him—before marriage! • Do not marry until you feel ready to have kids or until your suitor agrees to wait until you are ready. • About childrearing, ask people who have happy, healthy children what they do. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu dear sister in …

My Daughter Left Home Due to My Husband's Scrutiny

My Daughter Left Home Due to My Husband's Scrutiny

In this counseling answer: Dictatorial behavior blocks the possibility of reaching a win-win situation. Therefore, you have two choices: avoid that “something” which “will happen” by figuring out how to live with his edict(s) – by the Help of Allah (swt) – or challenge him. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum dear sister, You are not alone in your …

How Can I Teach Prayer to My Toddler ?

In this counseling answer: To responding the questioner who asks how to let her kid start taking part in the prayer, the counselor advises her to learn the prayer through example and interactivity; as lectures don’t cut it! the learning process has to be interactive. Wa ‘alaikum Salaam, This is the easiest and hardest question …

Husband Ill-treats Me for Not Having Kids

Husband Ill-treats Me for Not Having Kids

In this counseling answer: • His job is to comfort you not to abuse you about it! • You may need to stand up to your husband and tell him that his behavior is not Islamic. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum my dear faithful sister in Islam, Your question moved me extremely because of your suffering and because …

Ex-Fiancé's Memory Still Hunts Me

Ex-Fiancé's Memory Still Hunts Me

In this counseling answer: There is nothing “wrong” with remembering someone you once loved. Especially when you are NOT remembering him because you want or need him, but simply because he was/is such a great guy. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum, I am very happy for you that you have a wonderful and blessed marriage. In today’s world …

Ramadan Anxiety; I'm Not Good Enough

Ramadan Anxiety; I'm Not Good Enough

In this counseling answer: • You need to be more honest about who you really are so that you can be at peace with your own reality. • Don’t compare yourself with others. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam my dear Sister in Islam, Ramadan Mubarak! In Sha’ Allah, Allah created pain (guilt, in this case) to motivate us—like …

Only After His Sister’s Wedding Can He Marry Me

Only After His Sister’s Wedding Can He Marry Me

In this counseling answer: • Make istikharah prayer. • Parents can at best only offer you advice or suggestions based on their own personal experience or preferences. As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum, First of all, I am so happy for you for several reasons. One: you overcame your fear of men and marriage. Two: you found a man (and, …



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