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I'm Not Attracted to My Wife, Help!

In this counseling answer:  “Brother, your wife sounds wonderful.  She’s pious, she’s smart (she’s a doctor), she loves you and treats you well, and she seems very patient and compassionate-given the circumstances she is in.  She sounds like many men’s dream girl in fact. Brother, I think you do in fact realize this and are …

Husband Doesn't Work & Wastes My Money

Husband Doesn't Work & He Wastes My Money

In this counseling answer: • In case your husband does not take responsibility for his role in this horrific situation and stop abusing and using you and start acting like a Muslim man, you need to get as far away from him as you can. You need to rotect yourself from a life of sin. …

I Can’t Have Children; I’m So Depressed

We Can’t Have Children; I’m So Depressed

As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, As women, we have this natural drive and desire to have children and nurture them. When placed in a situation that deprives us of attaining what we desire (not just having children, but anything), then naturally this will lead to frustration and feelings of upset, which can have an impact on relations …

I Love My Wife Only When I’m Away

I Love My Wife Only When I’m Away

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling video, you will learn some tips on how to rekindle your relationship with your spouse, inshallah. *** Watch more: Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based on the limited information provided in the question. In no event shall AboutIslam, its counselors or …

Jailed by My Ex; I Want Revenge

Jailed by My Ex; I Want Revenge

In this counseling answer: • Seek help immediately for your mental health issues from a professional in your area. • Revenge is Allah’s (swt) and holding on to hateful feelings, revengeful desires, or other harmful thoughts towards self or others is emotionally dangerous. It could lead to you actually harming someone, thus ruing not only …

How to Get My Husband to Talk to Me?

How to Get My Husband to Talk to Me?

In this counseling answer: • You have to be patient with your husband and help him understand that you appreciate him and that you sincerely want to know what he is thinking or what he is feeling about a certain matter. • If you like details, you can encourage him by asking specific questions that …

An Angel Outdoors, Something Else Inside

An Angel Outdoors, Something Else Inside

In this counseling answer: • Make an appointment with your husband to talk about these matters. You should prepare yourself by writing down your thoughts and some strategies on how you believe both of you can work to resolve some of the issues facing you. • Discuss what kinds of responsibilities can be shared. He needs …

Feeling Like a Slave at My In-Laws' Home

Feeling Like a Slave at My In-Laws' Home

In this counseling answer: Give your (ex)husband the time that he says he needs to think things through. You need to also reflect on what’s happened and work on your relationship with Allah (swt). At this point, don’t place any unnecessary pressure on him. Use this as an opportunity to improve your relationship with Allah (swt). This will …

Between My Wife & My Ex-Wife

Between My Wife & My Ex-Wife

In this counseling answer: • What is missing is the true intimacy that you may or may not have experienced in your second marriage. • Take a look at where you have been, what you have now, and what has been presented to you. As honorable as your offer of re-marriage is to your second …

I Discovered My Wife Was Not a Virgin

I Discovered My Wife Was Not a Virgin

In this counseling answer: • Bleeding is caused by the tear in hymen which is often broken before sex due to incidents such as serious injuries, falls, and accidents, or simply because of strenuous activities. Therefore, you cannot judge the virginity of your spouse on the basis of this. • Maybe, it is your treatment …



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