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I & My Family Are Not Important to My Husband

I & My Family Are Not Important to My Husband

In this counseling answer: “You and your husband need to develop communications skills where you both can share what should be changed and set goals to compromise each other. You need to find out what he really expects from you, and also share with him what you would like to have from him. Small things like surprising …

I Love My Wife, She Loves Her Ex

I Love My Wife, She Loves Her Ex

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaikum Brother, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear of the pain that you have been experiencing in your marriage. I ask Allah to help you and your wife sort out all the complications and difficulties that have been occurring and give both of you patience and perseverance …

Husband Has No Love for Me

Husband Has No Love for Me

Answer: As Salamu ‘Alaikum, Thank you for writing to us. I am sorry to hear of the difficulties you are going through in your marriage my dear sister. It cannot be easy for you living under those conditions, especially when there are people coming in and out of the home causing disruptions. Perhaps living under …

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly recommend that whatever your decision is, you get counseling to deal with the stress and sadness you have been going through. Start your journal insha’Allah for clarification.  Delegate chores and some of the bills to your children. Seek refuge in Allah and spend social times with uplifting Muslim …

I Don’t Feel Any Attraction to My Wife

I Don’t Feel Any Attraction to My Wife

In this counseling answer: “Indeed, beauty is important, brother, but it does not last forever. If your wife is a good woman, religious and loves you, I believe you should give a chance to this relationship and try to build intimacy and bond with her. One year is not a long time for a couple …

I Need to Break Off My Engagement, but I Can’t

I Need to Break Off My Engagement, but I Can’t

In this counseling answer: “Compatibility, attraction, and an ability to build a solid Islamic foundation for a marriage are very important. Too often people overlook these vital components and regret it later on when they are suffering through a marriage which is void of companionship, intimacy as well as friendship. You were wise to get to …

Lifeless Marriage: Stay or Leave?

Lifeless Marriage: Stay or Leave?

In this counseling answer: “One suggestion I have is to try separating (not divorce) and go live with your family for a period of time. ” As-Salaamu ‘Alaikum sister Z, I’m sorry to hear of your difficult and tensed situation. What you are describing sounds like a lifeless marriage. Since the two of you share …

My Wife Has No Feelings for Me

My Wife Has No Feelings for Me

In this counseling answer: “Relationships go two-way. It needs a lot of effort. For a healthy life, always be honest, loyal, fair and empathetic. You want your wife to love you. Remember, even your wife wants the same. Therefore, communicate, and in sha’ Allah things will become better.” Dear Brother, Almost every relationship goes through a tough time. …

About Husband’s Neglect and How to Deal with It

About Husband’s Neglect and How to Deal with It

In this counseling answer: My first intuition about your situation is that when you had your children with no family or community support, both you and your husband probably became very overwhelmed. Communicate appreciation, respect, and admiration. See whether he will be drawn back toward you and begin to give you the love, attention, provision, and …

I Don’t Like My Wife; I’ll Surely Cheat on Her Again

I Don’t Like My Wife; I’ll Surely Cheat on Her Again

In this counseling answer: “The best thing you can do (in case there is no way to fix your marriage with a marriage therapy) is to “man up” and leave your wife in a situation where it is just as good as she was before she met you or better.” As-Salaamu ‘Alaykum, It’s well known …



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