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My Wife is Not as Attractive as I Expected

My Wife is Not as Attractive as I Expected

In this counseling answer: “You also need to ponder on the fact that she is the one who was destined to be with you from Allah. There must have been a good reason that Allah chose that particular girl for you and your future family that you will build together Insha’Allah. Do focus on those …

Husband Doesn’t Like Having Sex with Me

Husband Doesn’t Like Having Sex with Me

In this counseling answer: “If your husband remains reluctant to get connected with you, I advise you to seek professional help such as couple therapy. In any case, your relationship has just started and hopefully over the time you and your husband will overcome this initial adjustment phase. Some couples don’t really have a good …

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

I'm Not Good Enough for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly recommend that whatever your decision is, you get counseling to deal with the stress and sadness you have been going through. Start your journal insha’Allah for clarification.  Delegate chores and some of the bills to your children. Seek refuge in Allah and spend social times with uplifting Muslim …

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

After Having a Baby, Husband Isn’t Interested in Me

In this counseling answer: “On the one hand, I’m encouraging you to be a little less available. Keep yourself busy fulfilling meaningful goals for your own life and expanding the positive relationships you have in your life with friends. So, all of your free time isn’t invested in focusing on what you aren’t getting from …

Husband Stopped Having Sex with Me; I’m Thinking of Divorce

Husband Stopped Having Sex with Me; I’m Thinking of Divorce

In this counseling answer: “The duty of a husband is to treat his wife with kindness and all the other women in his life that he is responsible for. A husband treating his wife well isn’t conditional on how much she does for him. The character of a man of God is one who strives …

I Have No Feelings for My Husband

In this counseling answer: “Think about the following things; What do you love about him? What did you love about him? Remember good times you had together. Why/when did you lose the spark? Is there an underlying cause? (Too much time at work? Don’t feel appreciated? Since you had kids? boredom?) Identifying the root cause …

I Feel My Husband Doesn’t Desire Me

In this counseling answer: “A husband who without any genuine reason neglects his wife’s needs is as sinful as a wife who neglects her husband’s needs without any excuse.” As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, We are glad to hear that you found our previous answer useful. We will try our best to advise you the best we can …

My Husband Makes Me Feel Like an Object

My Husband Makes Me Feel Like an Object

In this counseling answer: “If he does not show that he is interested in you, then there is no point in wasting your life with him. I suggest that you stay at your parents’ place and let him take the step to solve the issues between you two. Wait and see what he does, or is …

I Almost Feel I'm Raping My Husband

I Almost Feel I'm Raping My Husband

In this counseling service:  Sexual relations are an Islamic right that both spouses have on each other. Therefore, the counselor advises the sister to honestly talk to the husband about her feelings and why seeking the help of a marriage counselor would be important in this situation. If after all nothing changes, the wife has …

Why is My Husband Not Interested in Sex?

Why is My Husband Not Interested in Sex?

In this counseling service: There is a reason why a husband is not interested in sex. In order to figure out what’s going on in his life, there should be friendship between a husband and a wife. Friendship builds trust between the couple, and trust helps to nurture compassion, understanding, and a deeper kind of …



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