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After 3 Months of Marriage, I’m Still Afraid of Having Sex

After 3 Months of Marriage, I’m Still Afraid of Having Sex

In this counseling answer: • Whether it is physical or psychological, the best thing you can do to start is to see a doctor. • When you are relaxed, the fear will reduce. • Don’t feel pressured. Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh sister, Firstly, just to reassure, many people experience a sense of fear …

How to Solve Intimacy Problems in a Marriage

How to Solve Intimacy Problems in a Marriage

In this counseling answer: • I kindly suggest that you and your husband spend more time together exploring your intimacy on a more creative level. • It’s very important to assure him that you love him, that you’re attracted to him, that he makes you feel good in bed and that he turns you on. …

We Love Each Other But Have Trouble Having Children

We Love Each Other But Have Trouble Having Children

In this counseling answer: • Stress, worry, depression can play a part in the ability to get an erection as can fatigue or feeling conflicted about one’s self. Try to get to the root of your husband’s problem. • Seek counseling. A good counselor will be able to help guide you through this and address any …

I’m not Satisfied with Our Sexual Life

I’m Not Satisfied with Our Sexual Life

In this counseling answer: • Start by rekindling the relationship and remembering what attracted you to him in the first place. • Being apart from one another gives you the space to reflect on the marriage. • Seek counseling. Wa Alaikum salaam wa Rahmatullah wa barakatuh, It is not unusual in a relationship that after …

Why Don't I Want to Have Sex?

Why Don't I Want to Have Sex?

In this counseling answer: • Once you are stuck in this routine with negative feelings towards sex, you will only continue to reinforce these feelings. • The root cause of the problem is probably more likely something outside of the relationship such as stress due to work. • Rekindle the relationship; go out on dates …

I Married the Wrong Person

I Married the Wrong Person

In this counseling answer: • Express to him your desire to serve Allah together. • If he is open, you may want to engage a trusted imam to help you both sort out what is going on. • Due to the lack of sexual relationship you mentioned, I encourage him to see his doctor for …

Husband Doesn’t Care About My Sexual Needs

Husband Doesn’t Care About My Sexual Needs

In this counseling answer: • Some men, due to ego or fear of not performing well, will take it as an insult and get angry. Others will be excited and intrigued to learn how to please their wives. • In marriage, communication is very important, as well as having an openness to learn about one’s spouse. …

I Need to Have Sex, but I Work Far from My Wife

I Need to Have Sex, but I Work Far from My Wife

In this counseling answer: “Brother, your options are limited as your job keeps you on lengthy sea voyages. Taking a second wife would be hard as you cannot even spend time with your first wife due to your job. Additionally, it would not solve your issue as you are mostly in the sea. Tips for controlling …

Husband Doesn’t Feel the Need to Have Sex

Husband Doesn’t Feel the Need to Have Sex

In this counseling answer: “Some women would blame themselves for the sexless marriage until they understood that there were major and serious issues their husbands were dealing with which weren’t about them. For your own ongoing mental well-being, it’s important to know that it’s not your fault or due to any deficiency within you that …

My Wife is Not as Attractive as I Expected

My Wife is Not as Attractive as I Expected

In this counseling answer: “You also need to ponder on the fact that she is the one who was destined to be with you from Allah. There must have been a good reason that Allah chose that particular girl for you and your future family that you will build together Insha’Allah. Do focus on those …



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