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I Can No Longer Live with My In-Laws

I Can No Longer Live with My In-Laws

Salam Aleikom, In this counseling video, you will learn: The possible reasons why a husband does not want to move away from his parents’ home What a wife can do to feel comfortable in such a situation *** Watch more: Disclaimer: The conceptualization and recommendations stated in this response are very general and purely based …

Mother-in-law

Mother-in-Law's Rule: OK!

 In this counseling answer: “Try to do things in your own home and on your own time that give you joy.  Doing so will make you stronger so that she does not erode you.  If she starts to yell at you and say foul things simply tell her that you ask Allah to forgive her …

I've Started to Hate My Mother-in-Law

I've Started to Hate My Mother-in-Law

In this counseling answer: • Your husband should be the spokesperson for your relationship and your decision-making. • You could also work to improve the overall situation by being assertive. Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear about your situation at home with your mother-in-law. I ask Allah …

Bad Influence of Songs on My Daughter

Bad Influence of Songs on My Daughter

In this counseling answer: •Talk with your mother in law about your concern, and mention the video and your preference for your daughter to watch other videos. Ask for her suggestions on videos for children. •As far as what influence it has on your daughter, it is not something that I would be really concerned …

Marriage, Parents, In-laws

What to Do When Parents Oppose Our Marriage?

In this counseling answer: You have made the right choice to begin by taking this to Allah and asking Him to change their hearts. Perhaps you could ask your parents, or him to organize a meeting between the 2 families to discuss the matter. You might think of introducing a third party who can educate …

I No Longer Accept to Be His Secret Wife

I No Longer Accept to Be His Secret Wife

In this counseling answer: “I would suggest that you both do it in private first, with his parents alone on a casual day. It will be surprising to them but do it slowly so they are able to digest it. It is his parents and he should be gentle and careful so he doesn’t come across …

Sister-in-Law Accuses My Husband of Killing Their Mother

Sister-in-Law Accuses My Husband of Killing Their Mother

In this counseling answer: “While he cannot cut off ties with her as it is against Islamic principles, you can kindly suggest to him that you both go on with your lives without her being so involved.  You may suggest that he continue to help her out and make sure she is okay. However, beyond …

mother

My Mother-In-Law Turns Daughter Against Me

In this counseling answer: “Now for a moment, put yourself in your husband’s shoes and realize that he was raised that way, therefore, you have an advantage over him and with that advantage, you have to find a way to awaken him as to his rights for the best interest of your family including your …

Mother-in-Law Accuses Me of Lying

Mother-in-Law Accuses Me of Lying

In this counseling answer: “Seek marriage counseling even with a non-Muslim if a Muslim counselor is not available. We get treatment from non-Muslim doctors when we are ill, so certainly we should seek counseling for our personal and marital problems even if a Muslim counselor is not available.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for sending us your …

Parents Make My Life Miserable; Can I Cut Ties?

Parents Make My Life Miserable; Can I Cut Ties?

In this counseling answer: “Parents always worry about their children and want them all to be successful and happy. I am not saying that they are using the right way of communication with you, but their intentions cannot be wrong. They are definitely not using the right method, and that’s why you have to talk to …



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