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Sexualization of Girls

Make-up At Home: Fun or Sexualization of Girls?

In this counseling answer: • Your husband merely needs to learn more about the Islamic scholars’ rulings on the permissibility of wearing makeup in the manner that you are with your daughters. • If one is to focus on physical appearances, it is better to take the body as a whole in term of health …

If Not My Husband, Can't He Be My Friend?

In this counseling answer: • You are not related by blood; therefore, this relationship cannot continue under the eyes of Islam. • The more active you can be in doing practical and interesting things, the more likely this relationship will be relegated to your past. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, We feel that you are being unfair to …

Brother-in-law seduced me

Brother-in-Law Seduced Me; My Husband Found It Out

In this counseling answer: Always remember that honesty and truth are the valued virtues in Islam and that deeds are according to intentions. Remember that Allah (SWT) knows the truth whether you hide it or not.  As-Salmu ‘Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh, In Islam, marriage is a sacred bond that should be respected and cherished …

I Found Porn on My Brother's Computer!

I Found Porn on My Brother's Computer!

Answer: As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh brother, “Allah the Almighty has laid down religious duties, so do not neglect them. He has set boundaries, so do not overstep them. He has prohibited some things, so do not violate them. About some things He was silent—out of compassion for you, not forgetfulness, so seek not after …

From Depression to Schizophrenia

In this counseling answer: “Long-term depression is not something that can be stopped just because one desires to. The body is finely tuned to the mind, and physiological aspects like how you sleep or eat, metabolism, heart rate and your immune system are affected by long-term depression. If you can consider a sport like swimming, or …

Home, Work, & Baby; My Life's Like a Factory

Home, Work, & Baby; My Life's Like a Factory

In this counseling answer: • You will need it to make the kind of change that you need in your life. • Your husband and the rest of the family can help a bit more towards a more sustainable family system that is beneficial for all. As-Salamu ‘Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,  It is not surprising that …

I'm Still Homosexual After Marriage

I'm Still Homosexual After Marriage

In this counseling answer: “Use that time to look at how your homosexuality began in order to help you find your way forward in life instead of sitting alone recycling negative thoughts that make you more depressed. “ As-Salamu ‘Aleikom, I am sorry to hear of this dilemma that you have lived with for so …

Feeling Imprisoned by My Parents

Feeling Imprisoned by My Parents

In this counseling answer: “How can we bridge the gap that exists between you and your parents in this regard? The answer is: with patience. Patience does not mean just waiting for what you want to happen. It means paying attention to other things, allowing the opportunity to present itself, and trusting in Allah in the …

I can't stand his beard!

I Can't Stand His Beard!

In this counseling answer: “You are still in the early years of marriage. Allow some time to get closer emotionally and psychologically to your husband so that your marriage can become more meaningful, and, thus, much stronger. Marriage is about mutual sacrifices from which we learn unconditional love – the love that is built on the foundations …

Causes of Being a Lesbian

Causes of Being a Lesbian

Answer: As Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for sharing with us your problem. Love is a precious medium that has been given to us as human beings through which many of the lessons we are to learn in order to become better human beings are transferred. Through love, we learn compassion, understanding, self-sacrifice, loyalty, trust, responsibility, …



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