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Pain and Guilt: Is It Depression?

In this counseling answer: • I don’t think it is merely a matter of failure to relax, otherwise, the pain would have disappeared after giving birth to your lovely son. • My advice is that you first try to put some stipulations regarding prayers and connect them to your daily schedule. As-Salamu `Alaykum dear sister, First, …

Husband Cheated with a Prostitute: Shall I Seek Divorce?

Husband Cheated with a Prostitute: Shall I Seek Divorce?

In this counseling answer: • Martial counseling will help both of you talk about how your current situation is affecting both of you. • You need to ask yourself and your gut whether this marriage is worth fighting for. As-Salam ‘Alaikum dear sister,   It seems you’ve been going through a difficult marital life. I’m …

Save Me from Depression!

Save Me from Depression!

In this counseling answer: • The best treatment outcomes are when the treatment includes medication and counseling simultaneously. • Pray and make du’aa’ that Allah keep you safe from anyone’s envy. Salamu ‘Alaikum dear brother, It seems you display some typical symptoms of clinical depression. It is very difficult for me to be certain and diagnose you remotely; …

After Divorce: How to Move On & Socialize?

After Divorce: How to Move On & Socialize?

In this counseling answer: • An additional source of building social relations are other parents whom you come into contact with through school as your child is of school age. • Another reliable source is the mothers you can meet at the many Islamic and Muslim social events. As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister,  It can all seem a …

I Met Someone Online & Want to Marry Him

I Met Someone Online & Want to Marry Him

In this counseling answer: “A family plays an important role in shaping a person’s character, and by knowing the family, one gets to know and understand a little more about the person one wishes to marry. It is never an open and shut case of falling in love and marrying that person because many complexities …

After Ramadan, I Started Losing My Faith

In this counseling service: • Maybe it’s a good time to begin a personal journal, the first entry of which is to recall those elements that sparked your fitrah and opened your heart towards Islam. • Keep company with Muslims. • Unless you have fasted before in this manner, you must give yourself and your body time …

Ramadan Makes Me Feel Guilty and Delinquent

Ramadan Makes Me Feel Guilty and Delinquent

In this counseling answer: • Make use of this Ramadan and try to understand yourself better. • You need to seriously reflect on the reason why you carry this feeling of guilt around. As-Salamu `Alaykum, Thank you for your question and your honesty regarding your feelings about Ramadan. I think your insight into your inner …

Feeling Helpless: Why Does My Husband Treat Me Bad?

Feeling Helpless: Why Does My Husband Treat Me Bad?

In this counseling answer: • Think back to the time when your husband could work and do not have serious back problems. Was his behavior than the same as it is now? • The marriage calls for a timeout so that you can both take a step back, review the situation, recover, and then decide what to …

I'm No Longer A Good Muslim

I'm No Longer A Good Muslim

In this counseling answer: “We all have the potential for good and the potential for bad within us. Some days, it is easier to be good than others. Sometimes, we learn what we are here to learn, and sometimes we forget. You wanted to be with the non-Muslims, but you judged them and distanced yourself. …

Abusive Husband Ruined Our Life; I’m Helpless!

Abusive Husband Ruined Our Life; I’m Helpless!

In this counseling answer: “You need healing, and this healing will take a long time. But it will only work effectively if your mind can become wholesome enough to repel negative thoughts instead of absorbing them. These thoughts include self-respect and self-esteem. ” As-Salamu `Alaykum wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh my dear sister, You have shared with us a very …



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