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I’m Not a Virgin; I Feel Desperate About My Future

I’m Not a Virgin; I Feel Desperate About My Future

In this counseling answer: • Please sit down and reflect upon the relationship. Make a list of all the things that he has done to hurt you. Write down the attributes of his personality that are good and those that are negative. • Allah tells us He will forgive us if we sincerely repent. So the question …

Will Allah Forgive Me for My Haram Relationship?

Will Allah Forgive Me for My Haram Relationship?

In this counseling answer: • Ask Allah to forgive you for your haram behavior. Repent and promise yourself that you will not have anything more to do with this boy. • It is his responsibility and his family’s responsibility to ensure that he does not fall into depression. As-Salaamu Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to …

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Counselors’ Tips on How to End Haram Relationships

Temptation is all around us, yet one temptation that proves to be formidable is haram relationships. It is such a growing issue in our Muslim communities that amongst college students in America, 57% of men and 48% of women report engaging in premarital sex. Our society markets sexuality and relationships outside the context of marriage …

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love You

In this counseling answer: • When you are thinking of marriage, you need to consider about the person’s piety above everything else. • You should not even think about proposing to him because he is already in another relationship. • I would also advise you to read and listen to lectures about marriage. • I …

I'm a Teenager & in Love with a Boy

I'm a Teenager & in Love with a Guy

In this counseling answer: “I would advise you to either forget about him or approach the matter in a halal way.”  As-Salamu ‘Alaikum dear sister, I am glad that you have decided to seek advice. Being in a relationship outside of marriage is very common in today’s time although it has extremely negative repercussions. I am sure that …

I Left My Haram Relationship, Yet I Miss Him

I Left My Haram Relationship, Yet I Miss Him

In this counseling answer: • Repent to Allah. • I would certainly encourage you to get involved in halal social circles that will provide you with some social support. • Try to keep good contact with your family and friends back home to reduce the loneliness. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam dear sister, May Allah (swt) forgive …

I Wish He Breaks Up with His Girlfriend & Marries Me

I Wish He Breaks Up with His Girlfriend & Marries Me

In this counseling answer: “I kindly suggest dear sister that you look at this situation for what it is – an experience. Repent to Allah for the haram you did and make du’aa’ to Allah to remove this boy from your heart, mind, and desires. Value yourself.” As Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. …

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10 Tips on How to Quit Haram Relationships

 Being in a haram (disallowed) relationship is a very common problem that challenges Muslim youths nowadays. It’s very easy to engage in such relationships but to give up is the most difficult part.  Here we give you 10 tips that will help you break away and stop this Haram relationship for the sake of God.

punished for being in a haram relationship

Punished for Being in a Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “There is nothing to say that past haram (sinful) behaviors will definitely have a negative impact on our future actions and relations, unless, of course, we have not authentically moved past these behaviors. There is no evidence of this that I am aware of in our teachings. I think the path you are …

He Blackmailed Me, so I Sent Nude Photos of Myself

He Blackmailed Me, so I Sent Nude Photos of Myself

In this counseling answer: • Never ever think about self-harming. It is haram in Islam and not worth it. • Play reverse psychology with him; tell him that you have told your parents about the videos and everything you have been up to with him to them and that your parents are marrying to off …



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