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Counselors’ Tips on How to End Haram Relationships

Temptation is all around us, yet one temptation that proves to be formidable is haram relationships. It is such a growing issue in our Muslim communities that amongst college students in America, 57% of men and 48% of women report engaging in premarital sex. Our society markets sexuality and relationships outside the context of marriage …

I’m Not a Virgin; I Feel Desperate About My Future

I’m Not a Virgin; I Feel Desperate About My Future

In this counseling answer: • Please sit down and reflect upon the relationship. Make a list of all the things that he has done to hurt you. Write down the attributes of his personality that are good and those that are negative. • Allah tells us He will forgive us if we sincerely repent. So the question …

I Left My Haram Relationship, Yet I Miss Him

I Left My Haram Relationship, Yet I Miss Him

In this counseling answer: • Repent to Allah. • I would certainly encourage you to get involved in halal social circles that will provide you with some social support. • Try to keep good contact with your family and friends back home to reduce the loneliness. Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam dear sister, May Allah (swt) forgive …

Will Allah Forgive Me for My Haram Relationship?

Will Allah Forgive Me for My Haram Relationship?

In this counseling answer: • Ask Allah to forgive you for your haram behavior. Repent and promise yourself that you will not have anything more to do with this boy. • It is his responsibility and his family’s responsibility to ensure that he does not fall into depression. As-Salaamu Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to …

I Wish He Breaks Up with His Girlfriend & Marries Me

I Wish He Breaks Up with His Girlfriend & Marries Me

In this counseling answer: “I kindly suggest dear sister that you look at this situation for what it is – an experience. Repent to Allah for the haram you did and make du’aa’ to Allah to remove this boy from your heart, mind, and desires. Value yourself.” As Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. …

Family Problems Made Me Fell Into The Trap of a Guy

Family Problems Made Me Fell Into The Trap of a Guy

In this counseling answer: “It is not uncommon for young people to seek love outside of the family when they feel insecure within their family circle. If he threatens you again, you can tell him you have repented to Allah and you want nothing to do with him. If he chooses to disclose the pictures, …

punished for being in a haram relationship

Punished for Being in a Haram Relationship

In this counseling answer: “There is nothing to say that past haram (sinful) behaviors will definitely have a negative impact on our future actions and relations, unless, of course, we have not authentically moved past these behaviors. There is no evidence of this that I am aware of in our teachings. I think the path you are …

Between Desires & Devotion to Allah

Between Desires & Devotion to Allah

In this counseling answer: “As we all go through tests and trials, we can also learn something from them. Look within yourself dear sister to see what it is that you are missing that is causing you to do haram acts. If we dig deep enough, we all can find the root of our issues …

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10 Tips on How to Quit Haram Relationships

 Being in a haram (disallowed) relationship is a very common problem that challenges Muslim youths nowadays. It’s very easy to engage in such relationships but to give up is the most difficult part.  Here we give you 10 tips that will help you break away and stop this Haram relationship for the sake of God.

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

Due to My Haram Relationship, Family Forces Me to Leave College

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly suggest that you sit down with your parents and discuss your concerns about having to do your schooling over again. The focus should be the concern for your studies, not the boy. If you focus on the boy, they may feel you still have feelings for him. While they …



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