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Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

In this counseling answer: • Do some research on this matter and educate yourself. • Having sexual intercourse with your spouse is counted as sadaqa (charity) in Islam. • The marital relationship is to be established on a basis of mutual understanding, compassion, and love. Salam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for sharing your problem with us. I can understand …

Mum’s Needs are Overwhelming: How to Cope?

Mum’s Needs are Overwhelming: How to Cope?

In this counseling answer: • The Qur’an tells us to feel grateful to our parents and do good to them. • Make time and effort to renew the bond with your mother when you get home from work every day. Develop familiar rituals that you both will enjoy. Salam ‘Aleikum, I can understand your problem and …

Student: How to Manage My Sexual Urge?

Student: How to Manage My Sexual Urge?

Answer: As-Salam ‘Aleikom brother, Thank you for contacting us regarding your concern. We appreciate it. I will, in sha’Allah, try my best to advice you in your matter. Sexual desire is a feeling that Allah (swt) has given to human beings for the continuation of generation. It is a natural matter, but more than that; …

How to Spend My Life with Someone I Don’t Like?

How to Spend My Life with Someone I Don’t Like?

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Aleikom sister, Thank you for contacting us regarding your problem. We appreciate it. I will try my best to advice you the best I can, In sha’ Allah. I am very saddened to hear about what has happened to you. Unfortunately, there are many marriages that are unfair and can make a person’s …

Don’t Feel Ready for Marriage, but My Parents Pressurize Me

Don’t Feel Ready for Marriage, but My Parents Pressurize Me

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Aleikum sister, We are so glad that you have reached out for some help and advice on this very difficult subject. I know there are many, many girls who are in a similar position like you. I will try my best to advice you, in sha’ Allah. Forced marriage is a practice in …

I Feel Marriage Isn't for Me

I Feel Marriage Isn't for Me

Answer: As-Salam ’Aleikom brother, Thank you for writing to us about your concern. We appreciate it. I will try to advise you the best I can, In sha’Allah. First of all, I am sorry to hear about the unfortunate incident of abuse in your childhood. No child deserves to go through this, and every parent …

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Wife Blames Me for Her Illness

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Aleikom brother, It must be confusing for you when your wife blames you for something you are not responsible for. As husband and wife, we are going to experience trials throughout our marriage, many that we never see coming. Maybe your wife feels depressed. Whatever her illness is, remember, it is not your …

How to Help Husband with Gambling Problems?

How to Help Husband with Gambling Problems?

Answer: As-Salam ‘Aleikum, Thank you for writing to us. I can understand your concern for your sister and your brother-in-law. What you are describing in your text sounds not good. I will try to advice you the best I can, In sha’ Allah. First of all, the husband is financially fully responsible for his wife. …

Parents’ Fight & Forthcoming Arranged Marriage Stress Me Out

Parents’ Fight & Forthcoming Arranged Marriage Stress Me Out

Answer:  As-Salaam ‘Alaikum sister, Thank you for writing to us. We appreciate it. I am sorry to hear about your family problem. I will try my best to advice you on this matter, In sha’ Allah. It is not healthy to see parents fighting; therefore, no wonder you have been going through mental stress and …

I Feel People Look Down on Me

I Feel People Look Down on Me

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for writing to us about your concern. We appreciate it. I will try my best to help and advice you, In sha’Allah. I am happy to hear that you are trying to get out of your comfort zone to practice your social skills. That’s very good! They are called social …



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