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I Feel People Look Down on Me

I Feel People Look Down on Me

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for writing to us about your concern. We appreciate it. I will try my best to help and advice you, In sha’Allah. I am happy to hear that you are trying to get out of your comfort zone to practice your social skills. That’s very good! They are called social …

Bad Childhood Experiences Still Affect Me

Bad Childhood Experiences Still Affect Me

In this counseling answer: • It seems you masturbate and watch haram movies to escape from your depressed life. Remain firm in your decision to quit this habit, resolute in your quest, and never give up hope. • You must stop every contact with him and think about your future. I know you are not thinking …

Parents’ Fight & Forthcoming Arranged Marriage Stress Me Out

Parents’ Fight & Forthcoming Arranged Marriage Stress Me Out

In this counseling answer: Islam has given freedom of choice to those who wish to get married. Try speaking to your mother about this matter and tell her about your concern. Ask her why your father finds this proposal suitable for you and what qualities he has seen in your cousin. I am sure your …

Husband Neglects & Abuses Me

Husband Neglects & Abuses Me

In this counseling answer: • The truth of the matter is that verbal abuse hurt as badly if not more than the physical abuse. • Speak to him when you both are alone in a good and respectful manner. Tell him how much you get hurt when he uses harsh words to you. Communication is …

How to Stop My Haram Relationship?

How to Stop My Haram Relationship?

In this counseling answer: • Focus on the right things. Educate yourself and seek Islamic knowledge; it will make you a stronger woman. • Don’t give him false hopes as it will only hurt his feelings. If you don’t have intentions to marry him, tell him that. As Salaam ‘Aleikum sister, First of all, I would …

How to Propose to My Male Co-Worker?

How to Propose to My Male Co-Worker?

In this counseling answer: • If you decide to talk to him directly, then make sure it is in a respectable and halal manner. • If you are too nervous to approach him directly or are unable to do it for some reason, you could send a message through someone who knows him. As-Salam ‘Alaikom sister, Thank you for contacting …

Sisters Blame Me for Causing Disunity in the Family

Sisters Blame Me for Causing Disunity in the Family

In this counseling answer: • Talk to any close relative whom your sisters respect and feel shy from. Let that person talk to your sisters and draw their attention to their bad behavior. • They will most likely argue with you less if you are confident and show them that their comments haven’t affected you. Be …

How to React to a Husband's Flirting with Other Women

How to React to a Husband's Flirting with Other Women

In this counseling answer: • Talk to him about how it makes you feel when he talks to other women. • Engage in activities together to make him busy and distracted from this awful habit. As-Salamu ‘Aleikom sister, Thank you for contacting us regarding your concern. Unfortunately, flirting is a common problem in every society, …

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

In this counseling answer: • Patience is the key to improve the relationship between yourself and the other wife. • Try communicating with your husband in a manner where you are not blaming him or putting him on the spot. As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, We are glad that you reached out to us with your problems. We …

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

In this counseling answer: • Do some research on this matter and educate yourself. • Having sexual intercourse with your spouse is counted as sadaqa (charity) in Islam. • The marital relationship is to be established on a basis of mutual understanding, compassion, and love. Salam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for sharing your problem with us. I can understand …



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