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Husband Neglects & Abuses Me

Husband Neglects & Abuses Me

In this counseling answer: • The truth of the matter is that verbal abuse hurt as badly if not more than the physical abuse. • Speak to him when you both are alone in a good and respectful manner. Tell him how much you get hurt when he uses harsh words to you. Communication is …

How to Stop My Haram Relationship?

How to Stop My Haram Relationship?

In this counseling answer: • Focus on the right things. Educate yourself and seek Islamic knowledge; it will make you a stronger woman. • Don’t give him false hopes as it will only hurt his feelings. If you don’t have intentions to marry him, tell him that. As Salaam ‘Aleikum sister, First of all, I would …

How to Propose to My Male Co-Worker?

How to Propose to My Male Co-Worker?

In this counseling answer: • If you decide to talk to him directly, then make sure it is in a respectable and halal manner. • If you are too nervous to approach him directly or are unable to do it for some reason, you could send a message through someone who knows him. As-Salam ‘Alaikom sister, Thank you for contacting …

Sisters Blame Me for Causing Disunity in the Family

Sisters Blame Me for Causing Disunity in the Family

In this counseling answer: • Talk to any close relative whom your sisters respect and feel shy from. Let that person talk to your sisters and draw their attention to their bad behavior. • They will most likely argue with you less if you are confident and show them that their comments haven’t affected you. Be …

How to React to a Husband's Flirting with Other Women

How to React to a Husband's Flirting with Other Women

In this counseling answer: • Talk to him about how it makes you feel when he talks to other women. • Engage in activities together to make him busy and distracted from this awful habit. As-Salamu ‘Aleikom sister, Thank you for contacting us regarding your concern. Unfortunately, flirting is a common problem in every society, …

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

My Husband Loves His Other Wife More Than Me

In this counseling answer: • Patience is the key to improve the relationship between yourself and the other wife. • Try communicating with your husband in a manner where you are not blaming him or putting him on the spot. As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, We are glad that you reached out to us with your problems. We …

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

Ready for Marriage, but Scared to Have Sex

In this counseling answer: • Do some research on this matter and educate yourself. • Having sexual intercourse with your spouse is counted as sadaqa (charity) in Islam. • The marital relationship is to be established on a basis of mutual understanding, compassion, and love. Salam ‘Alaikum, Thank you for sharing your problem with us. I can understand …

Mum’s Needs are Overwhelming: How to Cope?

Mum’s Needs are Overwhelming: How to Cope?

In this counseling answer: • The Qur’an tells us to feel grateful to our parents and do good to them. • Make time and effort to renew the bond with your mother when you get home from work every day. Develop familiar rituals that you both will enjoy. Salam ‘Aleikum, I can understand your problem and …

Student: How to Manage My Sexual Urge?

Student: How to Manage My Sexual Urge?

Answer: As-Salam ‘Aleikom brother, Thank you for contacting us regarding your concern. We appreciate it. I will, in sha’Allah, try my best to advice you in your matter. Sexual desire is a feeling that Allah (swt) has given to human beings for the continuation of generation. It is a natural matter, but more than that; …

How to Spend My Life with Someone I Don’t Like?

How to Spend My Life with Someone I Don’t Like?

Answer: As-Salaam ‘Aleikom sister, Thank you for contacting us regarding your problem. We appreciate it. I will try my best to advice you the best I can, In sha’ Allah. I am very saddened to hear about what has happened to you. Unfortunately, there are many marriages that are unfair and can make a person’s …



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