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Affair After Affair; I'm not Attracted to My Husband

Affair After Affair; I'm not Attracted to My Husband

In this counseling answer: “You say he is obese so maybe you could make exercise an activity that you both engage in together. You might like to sign up to the gym together. You can support him through activities in the gym and you can help to motivate him to attend regularly if you go together.” …

It Reads: "My Sweet Love, Hope You Feel Better"

In this counseling answer: “You are allowed to disagree with your husband. If you do not approve of what he is doing, Islamic or not, tell him respectfully. Just because something is allowed (i.e. having up to 4 wives) does not mean that we have to like it and live it. If you are uncomfortable …

He Loves Me or Takes Advantage of My Vulnerability?

He Loves Me or Takes Advantage of My Vulnerability?

In this counseling answer: “My advice dear sister is to cut him off immediately. End all contact. Ask Allah (swt) for forgiveness and repent for going outside of your marriage to seek solace. Try to repair your relationship with your husband, in sha’ Allah. Get counseling for your emotional issues and seek marriage counseling if your husband …

Deceived by a Married Man

Deceived by a Married Man

In this counseling answer: “While I understand the pain of love and heart back is heavy, and it seems like things in life will never get better, time will heal. These sour experiences will help you have a sweeter tomorrow through the wisdom you have gained from these mistakes. Remember, we are spiritual beings in …

Husband Cheats on Me, but Doesn’t Divorce Me

Husband Cheats on Me, but Doesn’t Divorce Me

Answer: Wa ‘Alaykum As-Salam, As a woman, I can truly empathize with you and your desire to find a good man who will love and protect you and your child. The treatment that you have endured from a man, who has not achieved manhood due to his character defects, is utterly deplorable and I am …

Suffering in a Loveless Marriage

Suffering in a Loveless Marriage

In this counseling answer: “So, for the sake of love you once had, for the sake of your son, and for the sake of Allah (to not be another divorce, in sha’ Allah), please ask your husband if he will try marriage counseling.” Wa ‘Alaikum Salaam my dear sister in Islam,  I am sorry that you have been suffering …

Husband Cheats on Me, but We Have a Son: Shall I Divorce?

Husband Cheats on Me, but We Have a Son: Shall I Divorce?

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alikum Sister, I am sorry to hear you are going through rough times. I noticed in your question that you are taking all the responsibility of the problems in your marriage and it is not fair. First of all, let’s recognize that divorce is allowed in Islamic law in certain cases, including adultery. …

he wants second wife

He Can't Provide for One Wife and Wants A Second

Answer:  Salaam sister, Your husband is feeling lonely! If your husband is behaving like this, then it is very likely that the mutual companionship you are both seeking is not there. Perhaps you do not communicate and have not been able to work collaboratively for some time. I would suggest that your husband is feeling …

What to Do to Save My Distressed Marriage?

What to Do to Save My Distressed Marriage?

In this counseling answer: “Make sure you try different ways of approaching your husband if you are not getting any responses or interest from him to discuss issues.” Salaam sister, It is unfortunate that you are in such a situation and while I commend your patience there is a breaking point for all people. You …

My Wife Doesn’t Value Me or Our Marriage

My Wife Doesn’t Value Me or Our Marriage

In this counseling answer: “Actively address your issues by asking your wife one more time to work towards saving the marriage. Get a paternity test to see if the child is yours and decide whether or not, based on these factors, you want to file for divorce. The sooner you take steps the sooner this …



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