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What to Do to Save My Distressed Marriage?

What to Do to Save My Distressed Marriage?

In this counseling answer: “Make sure you try different ways of approaching your husband if you are not getting any responses or interest from him to discuss issues.” Salaam sister, It is unfortunate that you are in such a situation and while I commend your patience there is a breaking point for all people. You …

My Wife Doesn’t Value Me or Our Marriage

My Wife Doesn’t Value Me or Our Marriage

In this counseling answer: “Actively address your issues by asking your wife one more time to work towards saving the marriage. Get a paternity test to see if the child is yours and decide whether or not, based on these factors, you want to file for divorce. The sooner you take steps the sooner this …

Pious Husband Betrays Me: I Feel Lonely

Pious Husband Betrays Me: I Feel Lonely

In this counseling answer: “Please do not think that seeking counseling is a weakness on your end. It is the contrary! Seeking counseling means that you are proactive and vigilant about being present in your life and making informed decisions.” Salamu ‘Alaykum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear about …

feelings of guilt

How to Overcome Feelings of Guilt?

In this counseling answer: “I kindly advise you sister to rest assured Allah loves and forgives you. Please do move forward in your Islam, getting involved in increasing your Islamic knowledge as well as seeking out Islamic sisters to do things with.  Cut off this boy-he is lost and he is toxic.” As salamu …

I Can't Stop Cheating on My Wife

I Can't Stop Cheating on My Wife

In this counseling answer: “Every time you cheat on your wife, you cheat on all the Muslims. The Ummah has enough problems and wants the mercy of Allah to fall on us. We need strong marriages and men who want that, otherwise, we as an Ummah will continue facing many problems. We need you to “man up”. …

He Deceives Women by Saying He's Not Married

He Deceives Women by Saying He's Not Married

In this counseling answer: “I kindly suggest that you approach him and tell him you love him and would like to save the marriage, but that you cannot live in a marriage in which haram acts are being committed. Ask him if he would be willing to go for marriage counseling with you or speak with …

Married to a Stranger

In this counseling answer: “In addition to seeking out marriage counseling, I would like you to really examine what it is you want from a marriage. Make a list of your needs and goals for a healthy, loving, Islamic marriage. Next, to your list, check off what is present in your marriage.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum dear sister, Thank you …

I Can’t Forgive My Wife Who Cheated On Me

I Can’t Forgive My Wife Who Cheated On Me

In this counseling answer: “Wounds take time to heal. If she truly repented to Allah for her actions, I would suggest that you move forward and closer.  Pray together, read Qur’an together, go to Islamic events together. This will draw you closer to Allah and to each other and build a stronger foundation for your marriage.” As-Salamu …

Torn Between My Wife & Another Woman

Torn Between My Wife & Another Woman

In this counseling answer: “My first suggestion would be to really ask yourself honestly why you want to marry this girl at your compound. What would you gain and lose by marrying her, and what would you gain/loss by not marrying her? Once you understand your feelings, then your second step would be to sit …

Can’t Forgive My Dead Husband Who Cheated on Me

Can’t Forgive My Dead Husband Who Cheated on Me

Answer: As-Salaamu ‘Alaykum, Sister, do you know this saying, “there are three types of business: (a) my business, (b) your business, (c) our business. I think this falls under my business.” Questions like how a person will be punished for their wrong doing, if they will be forgiven, what their end will be or when …



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