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I'm Tired of People's Constant Criticism

I'm Tired of People's Constant Criticism

In this counseling answer: • Those people who always criticize others and do not appreciate other people tend to not be happy with themselves. In actuality, it is not you whom they don’t appreciate or whom they’re critical of; it is themselves. • Start a journal. Make a list of the people who criticize you. Do you have strong …

My Husband's Bad Habit of Criticism

My Husband's Bad Habit of Criticism

In this counseling answer: • The key is to practice changing criticisms into subjective complaints. Use gentle “I statement” that relay your complaint without making your partner feel attacked and in turn defensive. • Notice generalizations like “always” and “never” aren’t used, and the expression is subjective which is less likely to feel like an attack. …

How to Deal with a Constantly Criticizing Husband

How to Deal with a Constantly Criticizing Husband

In this counseling answer: “For now, you must make sure that you do have people around you who support you in feeling about yourself the way you want to feel. For you, confidence building and self-esteem building will be very important. This is why I advise you to connect with friends who believe in you …

Too Concerned About People's View of Me.. Any Solution?

Too Concerned About People's View of Me.. Any Solution?

I am always concerned about how people see me, how can I change that? In the world we’re living in today, we can find a lot of people who always depend on what the people around them think. Their main focus is how the public sees them. Their main focus is how the people around …

How Prophet Muhammad Handled Criticism

How Prophet Muhammad Handled Criticism

Criticism can be tough to deal with for even the most humble of people, particularly if it is unfair or lacking in tact. Like a knife, it often causes deep, festering wounds and divides the closest of friends.

Abusive Father & Critical Husband: I’m Depressed

Abusive Father & Critical Husband: I’m Depressed

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Aleikum, Thank you for reaching out to us with your problem. We’ll try our best to help you, in sha’ Allah. First and foremost, children need a safe and secure home free of violence, and parents who love and protect them. From what you have described, it sounds like you have had a …

How to Deal with My Disrespectful Wife?

How to Deal with My Disrespectful Wife?

Answer: Salam ‘Alaikum, From the situations you have described, it sounds as if your wife is having trouble communicating her needs to you in a constructive way, and has resorted to expressing herself in anger, resentment, or inappropriate outbursts. Of course, this is not an appropriate way to communicate with a spouse or loved one …

How to Deal With Bitter Criticism

How to Deal With Bitter Criticism

By being unconcerned over trifles, a person displays a virtue that will surely bring happiness to him or her. Those who have lofty aims are concerned with the hereafter. A pious predecessor advised one of his brothers, saying, “Be concerned only with the following affairs: the day when you will meet Allah and stand before …



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