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Withdrawn Daughter

Our Jokes Made My Daughter Withdrawn!

In this counseling answer: •Go to your daughter (along with your husband) and apologize to her for saying anything mean, making fun of her and comparing her to her sister. •Please do assure her that you love her just the way she is, that she is a worthy, beautiful, and intelligent young lady, and that …

dyslexia, boy

How to Help My Child With Dyslexia?

In this counseling answer: •You have to encourage him in a positive and constructive way and not to push or force him. •Have patience when he fails to get a message or learn the words. He will, in sha’ Allah, in time. •Do not raise your voice, slap, or call him names. • Let him draw …

Trust

I Broke My Parents' Trust

In this counseling answer: •Try to explain to them what you were doing, and describe the people you are in touch with over the Net. •Always try to be honest about your own feelings with yourself, so that you can be honest with them. In this way, they can get to know what is happening for you, …

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I Have No Time for the Kids, Please Help

In this counseling answer: •You don’t have to do all the home chores by yourself. Let the father be involved in the lives of the kids’ and in managing the home. •Ask for help from the father and grandparents or you may employ a servant to help in home chores. All you have to do …

When Home Sweet Home Is a Prison

In this counseling answer: “Obviously,  your parents are very concerned about your safety, but you might want to point out to them that you are safe but lonely. In the meantime, I encourage you to find activities at home that you find enjoyable such as painting, cooking, or other hobbies. Many times our parents keep …

Showing Affection Between Parents in Front of Kids, Ok?

As-salamu alaykum, Acts of affection between parents (such as a kiss, holding hands, hugging) demonstrate affection, love, and respect between parents. It also teaches children that marriage is one of kindness and closeness. Children feel more secure when they see their parents close and sharing loving moments. It also teaches them how one should be …

How to Control Sexually Active Teen?

In this counseling answer: •Approach your daughter with sympathy, and kindness, just as you would deal with someone who is ill. •Avoid any kind of aggression or harsh words. At the same time, give her your message firmly and patiently. Keep communication channels open with her and try to develop her trust. Besides Islamic foundation, …

What About Kids With Challenged Childhood?

In this counseling answer: “As for those who are born with physical or mental challenges of different kinds, again, I think it depends on a lot of factors, one of which is the individual him- or herself, their constitution, and their makeup, along with the environmental factors.” As-salamu `alaikum, Often I think that is the …

moving out

Moving Out Is My Son's Goal

In this counseling answer: •You should do your best to talk him out of it. Do not give him ultimatums, as you might find it difficult to uphold or carry out what you propose to do as a form of discipline. If he insists on moving out, and you feel that he will move out …

Thumb

My Child Sucking Her Thumb, What to Do?

As-salamu alaykum, Thumb sucking is common is children. While many parents do not like it, it is often a habit, children drop as they grow older. Kind reminders are helpful, although they may also serve to reinforce the habit as children may start associating thumb sucking with parental interaction. I would kindly suggest sister that at …



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