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Adoption

I'm Afraid of Marriage and Pregnancy Pains, Can I Adopt A Child?

In this counseling answer: ” I would urge you to try and think beyond the experiences of your colleagues and remember that there are many positives in marriage also. Only paying head to those who have had bad experiences will inevitably leave you feeling as you are – like you don’t want to pursue marriage, because …

Daughter

My Daughter Hates Modest Clothes

In this counseling answer: “Just tell her that, you do not respect immodesty, but you do respect her mind and soul, so tell her that you believe in her capacity to see through the garbage and lies and tricks of our enemies to the beauty and truth of Islam, even if she is not strong …

Menstruation

Talking to My Daughter About Sex and Menstruation!

In this counseling answer: “Talk about the reason why we even get married at all—it is not just for sex, it is for a particular kind of companionship of which the pinnacle, the epitome of which is “marital relations”. Then you can go on to expand on that theme to include the role that physical …

Raising

My Husband Does Not Help in Raising Our Son

In this counseling answer: “While a lot of men are like your husband and think that we as mothers are superwomen, indeed, we are not. You do need your own time to gather your thoughts, relax, pursue a hobby or class, or to just socialize with other sisters. Our life should be a balance; however, …

son

A Socially Challenged Son

In this counseling answer: “If you can take time to explain each situation to him he can grow in knowledge and perhaps learn the skills he is lacking so his adult life can be easier. If, instead, you remain angry at him for his lack of perception, he may become even more confused and “give …

Control

Engaged In Masturbation, How to Stop?

As-salamu`alaykum. Long-term masturbation has the following effects as a result of changing the body’s chemistry: *Over-stimulation of the nervous system causing over-production of sex hormones and neurotransmitters, e.g., *Lower back pain. *Stress or anxiety. *Thinning hair or hair loss. *Soft or weak erection. *Eye floaters or fuzzy vision. *Groin or testicular pain. *Pain or cramp …

Dance

Mixed Messages at a School Dance

As-salamu`alaykum, Dear brother, it is quite troubling to hear that you physically assaulted a female for dancing too close to you. First off, we should never put ourselves in situations that could lead to that sort of interaction with members of the opposite sex. Secondly, it’s ironic that out of fear of committing a sin, you committed another …

Center

Center of Whose Universe?

As-salamu `Alaikum dear daughter, When people lack faith they’re bound to behave that way because the love of dunya (worldly life) is strong. We become focused on the materialistic values which become stronger than the Islamic values, which is a form of shirk (idol-worshipping). To overcome these obstacles, one has to get closer to Allah and learn the path through …

Raising

The Golden Rules for Raising My Child

In this counseling answer: “Deprivation of something they like makes a good way to reinforce the lesson you are trying to teach, but punishment without her understanding only teaches her that you do not love her (in her mind). If there is a series of bad habits that your daughter is developing, be merciful and try …

How to Help My Child Stop Being Selfish?

In this counseling answer: ” Remember, when you are feeling frustrated and the other children are mad, your child is seeing all of that and taking it in. Just keep repeating the message to him/her. Also, of course, it helps to let him/her feel the pain of what it is like when others will not share …



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