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In Bad Financial Situation: Why Having a Second Wife?

In Bad Financial Situation: Why Having a Second Wife?

In this counseling answer: • Your feelings are legitimate and real. • Sit with your husband and to start talking about your feelings and not about what he did wrong. • Seek counseling for yourself. As-Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for sending us your question. I am sorry to hear about the situation you are going through with your …

Divorce

Concerned About Divorce Effect on My Child

In this counseling answer: “Individual counseling is needed for the both of you, because it will help each one of you reflect on your feelings, the source of your pain, and create new goals in order to overcome these hardships and find happiness within yourselves. Individual counseling should give each one of you more clarity and …

My Father Abandons Me

My Father Abandons Me

In this counseling answer: “Writing down your feelings can also be a very liberating thing to do if you feel confused or unable to verbalize your feelings. There is a lot of power in writing your feelings down on paper and holding it in your hand. The feelings suddenly become tangible instead of intangible and …

Fiancée Refuses to Talk About Feelings

Fiancée Refuses to Talk About Feelings

In this counseling answer: “I would highly suggest that you talk to her about your feelings regarding this matter. Talk about it directly and honestly. There is no shame in discussing your feelings with a potential spouse as long as it is done respectfully.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum Brother, Thank you for sending us your question. It seems …

Perpetual Debate with My Fiancé: Is It a Sign?

Perpetual Debate with My Fiancé: Is It a Sign?

In this counseling answer: “I would also highly recommend that the both of you participate in pre-marital counseling. The counseling will help the both of you put everything in perspective and talk about the really important issues, which is refreshing and reassuring after arguing over small issues. This suggestion is highly recommended, and I encourage …

Husband Ignores Me All Day Every Day

Husband Ignores Me All Day Every Day

In this counseling answer: “At the right time, genuinely mention to him that you have noticed an obvious change in his behavior and as a loving wife, you are eager to help him overcome whatever difficulty he is facing. Be a good listener; show him love, empathy, and understanding just as you would wish for …

In-Laws Interfere in Our Private Life

In-Laws Interfere in Our Private Life

In this counseling answer: “The comments that you are hearing are still unacceptable. As a newlywed living with your in-laws, your husband must be your spokesperson. You must tell your husband how you feel about the comments that are said to you and talk about how he can help stop them. After all, he is …

Mother-in-Law Accuses Me of Lying

Mother-in-Law Accuses Me of Lying

In this counseling answer: “Seek marriage counseling even with a non-Muslim if a Muslim counselor is not available. We get treatment from non-Muslim doctors when we are ill, so certainly we should seek counseling for our personal and marital problems even if a Muslim counselor is not available.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for sending us your …

Do You Need a Wife or a Maid?

Do You Need a Wife or a Maid?

In this counseling: “To clarify further, a wife is not a maid. Her main responsibilities are absolutely not to cook, clean, and complete household chores. A wife is a committed partner whom you will share your life with – the good and the bad. As husband and wife, both of you were created to protect, love, …

Husband’s Three Wives and His Cyber Sex Partners

Husband’s Three Wives and His Cyber Sex Partners

In this counseling answer: “The best thing you can do at this point is to attempt to connect with him. I know, this sounds really difficult, but if your goal is to help him admit his wrongdoing and stop him from doing it in the future, he needs support.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for …



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