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17 Months in Marriage But No Child Yet

In this counseling answer: •Stop focusing on conceiving for right now and focus on enjoying each other, spend time with family and friends, do things together such as a new hobby or interest and let your intimate life take it’s a natural course with no goals in mind except expressing your love for each other. •In the …

Father Tracks My Every Move; I'll Go Crazy!

Father Tracks My Every Move; I'll Go Crazy!

In this counseling answer: • It seems your dad fears losing you. • Try talking to the imam of your local mosque. • Get some counseling at your school. Salamu ‘Alaikum my dearest sister, I am so sorry to hear about what you are going through. The positive factors are that you are going to college …

Same-Sex Feelings: How to Get Rid of Them?

Same-Sex Feelings: How to Get Rid of Them?

In this counseling answer: • These thoughts will go away as you settle into your new life with your wife as well as your natural desires for intimacy are fulfilled within marriage. • You must also remember brother that Allah (swt) tests us all in different ways. This may be just one test for you, and alhamdulillah you have …

How to Get My Kids to Love the Prophet?

How to Get My Kids to Love the Prophet?

In this counseling answer: •There are many books for children including Qur’an & Seerah Stories for kids by Saniyasnain Khan which can be read to your children and further explained at age appropriate levels. •Children love stories and reading to your children and discussing the content is not only instilling a love for the Prophet …

How Can I Establish An Islamic Home?

In this counseling answer: ” I would kindly suggest that if you are near an Islamic community that you attend the Masjid regularly and get to know some sisters there. Strive to build lasting friendships as our sisters can be our greatest source of strength and encouragement. You will insha’Allah enjoy cooking dinners together, or going out for a bite …

Husband Can't Accept Our Daughter with Down Syndrome

In this counseling answer: “I would highly suggest that you ask your husband for more time before having to make such a decision. It could be that your husband is so shocked, surprised and upset that he is not thinking clearly at this point. I would speak with your doctor about your husband’s reaction and …

I Can’t Overcome Laziness & Overeating

I Can’t Overcome Laziness & Overeating

In this counseling answer: • Women, in particular, overeat due to boredom, feeling deprived, comfort eating, a dislike of their body (self-sabotage), anxiety, depression and a myriad of other reasons. • Write down what you are feeling right before you eat a meal or reach for that tasty looking sweet. Also, write down how you felt …

My 10-Year Old Son Is Spying on Us, What to Do?

In this counseling answer: •Not shaming him, but do make clear that this kind of behavior is not good manners. You may want to discuss privacy with him as it pertains to parents as well as other family members. •Tell him that as it is rude and an invasion of privacy he will be reprimanded …

Dad: The Most Abusive Person I’ve Even Seen

Dad: The Most Abusive Person I’ve Ever Seen

In this counseling answer: “I would suggest dear sister that in sha’ Allah you suggest to your father that if he wants to have his family back, he needs to get counseling first and resolve whatever it is that is bothering him (in a respectful way). Suggest he sees a counselor and a trusted imam for guidance. …

I Can’t Accept to Be Still Single

I Can’t Accept to Be Still Single

In this counseling answer: It is your right to seek marriage and be an active participant in your search. Open your heart to any potential suitor if they were of good Islamic quality regardless of ethnicity. Keep your heart open, pray to Allah for guidance and ease, make du’aa’ for your parents. Become active in your community …



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