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I Don’t Feel Love for Allah, but Fear

I Don’t Feel Love for Allah, but Fear

In this counseling answer: “I would suggest dear brother that you seek counseling in your area on a regular basis. Begin to heal from your depression, anxiety, and OCD. Once you begin therapy, in sha’ Allah, you will feel peace, and things will be brought into the proper perspective in your mind. You will in sha’ Allah begin to see the …

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Forgive the Man Who Destroyed My Childhood?

Answer: As Salamu ‘Alaykum sister,  I am so sorry about the heinous abuse you went through by your home servant. What is even more horrendous is that when you did tell your mother, she did nothing about it. I am so sorry. Sister, I know this does not help much, but you are not alone. In …

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I Feel Too Shy to Propose to My Cousin

In this counseling answer: “Your mom may be a great resource in helping you facilitate a conversation with her if she is available as well as interested. These are things your mom can find out for you. While I understand you may feel shy asking your mom for help, please do remember brother that parents …

Is It Black Magic on My Family?

Is It Black Magic on My Family?

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaykum brother, Thank you for writing to us. I am sorry to hear of all of the difficulties you and your family is going through. It seems that it has been one thing after another concerning health issues, as well as lack of support from family, even abuse and cruelty from your father’s …

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17 Months in Marriage But No Child Yet?

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly suggest that both you and your wife stop focusing on conceiving for right now and focus on enjoying each other, spend time with family and friends, do things together such as a new hobby or interest and let your intimate life take it’s natural course with no goals in mind …

Co-Sleeping with Kids: How to Have Sex?

In this counseling answer: “I would kindly suggest that you prepare a fun, colorful welcoming room for your child and begin putting your child in his/her bed at night. Explain to your child that he/she is a big boy/girl now and that it is time for them to have their own room. You may want …

I Feared of Loneliness, So I Got Married

I Feared of Loneliness, So I Got Married

In this counseling answer: “When one of the spouses becomes abusive and inflicts physical, mental, or emotional torture, and is not willing to change by taking practical measures through therapy or counseling, then it is a valid reason for seeking divorce.” As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. I am sorry to hear …

How to Deal with a Narcissistic Sister?

How to Deal with a Narcissistic Sister?

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, Thank you for writing to us. I am sorry to hear of your difficulties with your sister. It must be difficult living with someone who is diagnosed “narcissistic” or has these personality features. In sha’ Allah, Allah will give you great barakah for enduring the situation. It may be the case …

How Can I Establish An Islamic Home?

In this counseling answer: ” I would kindly suggest that if you are near an Islamic community that you attend the Masjid regularly and get to know some sisters there. Strive to build lasting friendships as our sisters can be our greatest source of strength and encouragement. You will insha’Allah enjoy cooking dinners together, or going out for a bite …

Husband Can't Accept Our Daughter with Down Syndrome

In this counseling answer: “I would highly suggest that you ask your husband for more time before having to make such a decision. It could be that your husband is so shocked, surprised and upset that he is not thinking clearly at this point. I would speak with your doctor about your husband’s reaction and …



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