In this counseling answer: • Seek a therapist. • Sit down with your mom and discuss what is on your mind. Discuss the things that you admire and love her. Even if there are not many happy memories sister, I would try to write down as many as possible that you remember. As Salaam Alaykum …

In this counseling answer: “Allah does make it clear that we should love and respect our parents, but understandable in the questioner situation, she find this difficult when they have caused so much damage. Though, the counselor advises the questioner to increase her connection with Islam by making sure to continue practicing daily as well …

In this counseling answer: “I recommend that you sit down and talk to her about the whole situation. Tell her how you feel about it all. Tell her that you are hurt and disappointed by what she has done. I think it is lack of communication between you both. It is important that you talk to …

In this counseling answer: ” I would advise you to be open to the option of marriage. Be aware that she has no right to force you into a marriage that you do not want. However, as long as you approve of the guy, it would be good for you to marry. In fact, in Islam, it …

In this counseling answer: “Yes, she is your mother, and Islamically you should hold her in high regard, but this does not mean that you should sit back and passively endure such abuse. However, understandably, you also love your mother and want to find a better way to deal with your scenario. Islam teaches us a …

In this counseling answer: Talk to your mom about your feelings. But don’t judge or blame. Know yourself, your strengths, and know that you are a beautiful and intelligent lady who is not less than anyone else. Do not let anyone put you down by projecting his or her own issues and insecurities on you. …

Answer: As-Salam ‘Alaykum A, My hear breaks as I read your story. You must be feeling quite alone. You are correct that you are experiencing both emotional and physical abuse in your home. It does seem as if some of your siblings care about you while others might be taking advantage of your situation. Of …

In this counseling answer: It is recommended that you take some time away from your parents if possible to get some space away from the unacceptable abuse that you face. This will also give you the time to think more rationally about the options you have available to you at the moment; agree to meet …

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum brother, It is understandable why you feel depressed by your mom’s behavior. Firstly, her abusive actions towards you will obviously bring you down. Anyone who is treated in this way will have a difficult time being happy, particularly when such actions come from someone you love and respect more than anyone. Additionally, …

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaykum sister, May Allah (swt) bless you for trying to take care of your mom and putting up with her abusiveness. I am sorry to hear of your father’s passing; may Allah (swt) forgive him and grant him Jannah, in sha’ Allah. I can imagine that it is a hard situation for you, …