Abusive Husband | About Islam
Home > Tag: Abusive Husband

Tag: Abusive Husband

Husband Abuses Me and My Kids and Blames Me for It

Husband Abuses Me and My Kids and Blames Me for It

Answer: As-Salaamu `Alaikum Sister, Jazak Allah khairan for writing back with the details of your problem. This situation does not bode well for you or your children, and living with this for a prolonged period is not healthy for any of you whether physically or emotionally. But I am wondering what exactly your dilemma is. …

Husband Abusive but I'm Ashamed to Divorce Again

Husband Is Abusive, but I'm Ashamed to Divorce Again

Answer: As-Salaam `Alaikum sister, You appear to be going through hell in your relationship. Your husband has behaved in ways that have caused you psychological and emotional distress, which is probably the reason you now feel repulsed from him. Feelings cannot be switched on and off when and whenever we wish. You are entitled to the …

What to Do When Husband is Abusive?

What to Do When Husband is Abusive?

Answer: Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salam Sister, I very much understand and empathize with what you have been experiencing. Women are given mixed messages and it can be difficult to know what to do. Indeed, there may be a huge discrepancy between what is ideal and what is really happening. If you are being physically abused, then …

„I’ve the Right to Hit You”, Husband Says

"I’ve the Right to Hit You”, Husband Says

Answer:  As-Salaam ‘Aleikom sister,  We are sorry to hear about your story and can understand how hard time you might be going through. As you are describing in your text that you are being abused by your husband, it seems to me that your husband may suffer from schizophrenia like his mother. You mentioned that …

Imprisoned By My Husband (2)

Imprisoned By My Husband (2)

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum Sister, Thank you for writing us back. Marriage certainly is not easy and it sounds like you are certainly experiencing a lot of barriers to get your message across to your husband. You have mentioned that your husband is adamant about his views, and does not believe that his extreme jealously is …

Kids & I Are Scared of My Abusive Husband

Kids & I Are Scared of My Abusive Husband

Answer: As-Salamu ‘Alaikum sister, First of all, you need to realize that your children are your priority and not your parents. But let’s talk about your problems separately. Your parents: Sister, I understand that we all want the best for our families, but unfortunately it is not in our hands to try to change or …

Cousin is Abused by Husband & In-laws; How to Help?

Cousin is Abused by Husband & In-laws; How to Help?

Answer: Wa ‘Alaikum As-Salam, I am sorry to hear of this difficult situation. I would first like to ensure that you know in Islam there are many verses in the Quran and ahadith (Prophet’s authenticated traditions) which emphasize the importance of not harming oneself or others and of gentleness and kindness such as, “The Prophet …

Wives Dealing With Tough Husbands

Wives Dealing With Tough Husbands: Any Options?

Salam Dear Rahma, Thank you for your sincere question and desire to seek the truth. May Allah make the path to truth easy on all of us. Although this is not a fatwa, I pray that it helps shed light on the perfect justice of the religion of Allah. First, it is imperative to stress, as …

Abused by My Husband, How to Respond Islamically

Abused by My Husband, How to Respond Islamically?

Salam Dear Sister, Thank you for your question and for contacting Ask About Islam. I’m sorry this is how you feel about your husband. A Muslim marriage is supposed to be built on tenderness and tranquility, so it’s sad when the sacred bond of marriage turns into a source of pain for the couple and their …

How to Handle Marital Rights

How to Handle Marital Rights?

Salam Dear Sister, Thank you for your question and for contacting Ask About Islam. I do believe you when you say that in your country law is always in the side of men against women. In fact, the rate of violence against women in Bangladesh is much higher than any other country. Tragic enough, is that …



find out more!