Keeping a Photo of One’s Fiancée: Permissible?
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Keeping a Photo of One’s Fiancée: Permissible?

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Andrew

Reply Date

Dec 07, 2018

Question

Dear scholars, as-salamu `alaykum. I have been engaged with a Muslim woman. Although I don't have any contact with her, can I think about her and take her photo with me? Jazakum Allahu khayran.

Mufti

Answer


Keeping a Photo of One’s Fiancée

Wa `alaykum As-Salamu wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh

In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. 

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.


In this fatwa:

Although you are allowed to look at the woman’s photo before deciding to marry her, you are not allowed to carry her photo around or continue to think or meditate about her until the marriage has been formally contracted. 


In his response to your question, Sheikh Ahmad Kutty, a senior lecturer and Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada, states:

Although you are allowed to look at the woman’s photo before deciding to marry her, you are not allowed to carry her picture around or continue to think or meditate about her until the marriage has been formally contracted.

Engagement in Islam is not considered as a lawful marriage contract; rather, it is simply a promise to be married at a future date, and as such, it does not in any way render anything that had been previously considered unlawful as lawful.

Therefore, as long as you are not married, you are not allowed to carry her photo around. You are, however, allowed to look at her photo carefully in order to make up your mind about marrying her.

This is because the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) told the Companion who wished to marry a young woman, “Go and look at her first (before deciding), for it might (enable you to) foster your (marriage) relationship.” (At-Tirmidhi)

The permission thus given is an exception granted in order to help a person to make a better choice than if he/she were simply marrying someone whom he/she never saw prior to marriage.

On the other hand, members of the opposite sex are forbidden from persistently looking at each other or their photos, for it might lead to illicit thoughts and desires. According to the Shari`ah principle, that which leads to haram (unlawful) is deemed as haram.

Almighty Allah knows best.

Editor’s note: This fatwa is from Ask the Scholar’s archive and was originally published at an earlier date.




About Sheikh Ahmad Kutty

Sheikh Ahmad Kutty is a Senior Lecturer and an Islamic Scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada.

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