Salam Dear Sister,
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This is a continuation of Part 1.
Is Allah a “He”?
Now for the claim that supposedly, Allah is Himself a “he” because that is how He refers to Himself in the Quran. This is actually purely an issue of linguistics.
Please refer to this answer regarding masculinity or femininity in relation to His Divine Entity.
Are men and women equal in rewards in Jannah?
Sister, I would like to suggest that you employ extreme caution in saying things about Allah, Our All-Just and All-Wise Lord, even when your intention is good, whilst asking questions about Him based on the doubts that you are having from the Shaytan.
Allah is Just. No one can be more just than Him. He will never, ever withhold the rightful recompense of any good-doer, be it a man or a woman.
To think, believe, or to even say that He will ‘cheat’, ‘brainwash’, or ‘trick’ one of His female slaves in the Hereafter, and ‘be unjust’ to her in giving rewards in Paradise (Jannah), is in itself a form of disbelief (kufr).
I urge you to be very careful when writing down or conveying any doubts about our All-Just Lord that the Shaytan is placing in your head.
Even repeating things that others have said about Allah, which are insulting and demeaning in their tone, wording, or meaning, is totally disallowed and amounts to major sin. High and pure is Allah, far, far above all the lies and bad things that are said about Him, especially by the non-believers and heretics in this world.
In order to find out whether men and women will have different rewards in Jannah, please go through the following link carefully, with a humble, submissive heart and an open, receptive mind:
In the end, I would like to request you to worry about safeguarding your faith from getting affected by what you hear others, especially misogynist men, say about Allah and Islam, especially about the Divine laws and commands pertaining to women.
Please make sincere and intense dua to Allah for guidance, steadfastness upon firm faith, and higher levels of piety (taqwa). Also, please resolve to seek the authentic knowledge of Islam through the Quran and hadith.
As a young, gullible Muslim, you should recite, read and reflect deeply upon the Quran every single day. You will then soon clearly see, insha’Allah, the tremendous and historically exclusive respect, dignity, liberation from oppression, and honor that Allah has afforded to women through Islam. No other culture, religion or man-made social or political system has come even close in this regard!
Knowledge of Islam and sincere faith in Allah combined, become the best dispellers of doubts and insinuations from the Shaytan, which he endeavors to actively spread through misguided and bigoted individuals that exist in every society in this world.
Beware of swerving off the Right Path of Islam by listening to the shenanigans of such devils in disguise.
May Allah grant us all high levels of faith and righteousness. Ameen.
I hope this helps answer your question.
Salam and please keep in touch.